Dear boots2018:

Complicated but not bad yet. Can get bad, but not yet. I think it is time to think well before proceeding.

Let’s say you and your boss sleep together, my goodness, how that can change things. So far, being the moral person you stated that you are, you were able to live with yourself, live with the way things are. But making this relationship physical can make all the difference and bring about guilt of such magnitude that it will be almost impossible to keep your marriage and well being intact after that.

Of course, you know all that. But you’ve known this for a while and you keep going, the flirting, texting. What happens is we get desensitized over time to a danger we are aware of, we get used to things and fail to notice when we cross that line. That line becomes blurry as we see it there for too long, and forget it is there, after a while, one moment and we forget it’s there and cross it.

A complicated situation but not too late to stop it from getting bad, creating a lot of suffering for you and for the other three individuals involved.

If you agree, what do you think needs to be done?

anita