I feel like it may be too early for counselling  but I have thought of it before to be honest with you.

I don’t believe that anything drastic will happen, I don’t think we’ll split up or anything like that. My worry is that it will become a huge explosive argument and that he won’t understand that it’s just who I am, not that I don’t trust him even though I understand how jealousy can be mistaken as distrust. And he sees her everyday, so every time he talks to her, he’d think about our conversation and will likely not talk about her or think twice about it, which I feel isn’t good communication between him and I. If that makes sense?