Dear Jenny Lynn:

He removed the curtains because he knows you like it dark. This leads me to not be optimistic and to not expect him to respond with “yeah the end of the month is cool”, or if he does say that, I am thinking, he may… take the shower curtains off… no, no he wouldn’t do that, he likes to shower several times a day, you wrote. So he needs the curtains there.

It is a good idea that you list several options regarding his reaction and plan how you will be responding to each, so that you are not surprised and that you do act cool, as you plan to act. List possibilities you didn’t think about and plan your reaction to those…?

anita