Hi Katie,

I must be missing something because I dated my college roommate’s brother and OF COURSE I would date her brother! Why wouldn’t I??

To me her dating someone you used to go out with is egregious. Not dating a friend’s brother!

It sounds like you need to change your whole crew of friends.

And no, you have every right to dislike her. Why would you like her? You just have to be polite with his family, but you don’t have to like them.

And if he’s a Senior, your time together will (in all likelihood, sorry) be coming to an end soon. At a certain point it’s kind of weird for a guy to still be dating a girl from high school (happened to my daughter, and she understood).

Shed the girlfriend and keep the boyfriend for now.

Best,

Inky