Dear dollygirlie:

You want to confess to your boyfriend about… the sins you committed before you met him, as if you were a criminal and as if he was a morally superior being able to stamp the Forgiven Stamp over you, once your confessions are complete.

Of course there will be more to confess, more things you did wrong.. more thoughts you didn’t yet tell him about?

All fueled by the core belief that you are guilty. Did you explore this core belief in therapy, when and in what context it originated, in other words, when did you become a bad person, in your mind?

anita