Thank you for reaching out.

I lost touch with a special person in my life from about twenty years ago. She reentered my life less than ten years ago, but then passed away from cancer.

Recently, I also had an ex contact me from that same time period in my life (twenty years ago). His contact triggered feelings of grief for my soul sister. They knew each other, but he did not know she passed away because they did not travel in the same social circles. They knew each other through me.

Could it maybe just be about closure?

How do I let it go? My senses tell me that traveling down any communicative path with him is not in my best interest. My thoughts about the situation are slightly obsessive. I think it is just because I miss my friend so much.