Dear anon11:

When he broke up with you, you begged him to change his mind, but he didn’t. Then he did change his mind. Following that, you rushed things he reinstated the break up.

If he doesn’t contact you in three or four weeks, should you massage him, something “nice and friendly”- he may not believe you being just that, nice-and-friendly, because of the past begging and rushing.

If I know more, it can help me understand better, therefore I ask: when you write that “he is too hurt or stubborn”, what do you mean: how is he or was he too hurt, hurt by what? And has he been stubborn in the past, during the relationship, before the breakup?

anita