Hey Anita
I conveyed my feelings meaning that I’ve let him know that I am not ready for a relationship right now. We are pretty much just friends with benefits. Example for my reaction is what I mentioned like”1.You going to be my wife you don’t even know 2.Do you think your dad would like me? 3.When Are you going to think about getting a man?4. Are you going to move in with me? 5. You going 5lto have my twins lol. it’s like he is entertaining these ideas of us having a future outside of sex but him making a comment about seeing my reaction which is “shock,fear,and unease” is what makes me wonder if he even takes me seriously in the aspect of us being in a commited relationship together.I understand joking around every now an then but these things are brought up regularly and I wonder if it’s to make me feel like it’s not just about sex when it really is. I hope this is clearer for you.what do u think I should do here. Thanks for feedback