Dear Jenny Lynn:

Regarding:

“He wasn’t going to change for me” and  “I couldn’t stay if there was no change”- the logic is clear.

“What he thinks of me doesn’t matter”- what he tells you that he thinks of you is meant to hurt you. This is what anger is about, trying to hurt someone. Look at other animals- when an animal gets angry it is motivated to fight, which means to hurt the object of their anger. Glenn is no different than any other human and any other animal that experiences anger: he is motivated to hurt the object of his anger.

So what he says he thinks of you is meant to hurt you, that is why he says the things he does.

anita