Scott,

Medication can affect one’s ambition/energy/drive, etc.  You may want to cut back on it.  Being anxious in itself is not bad.  Too much anxiety can be if it affects how you navigate through life.

I don’t believe in jettisoning my friends and family for one person/girlfriend.  I have been ditched by my guy friends for their girlfriends and that is not good.  I get resentful and make the decision that they are not really friends at all.  I never go back.

You may want to have a more balanced social life.

Psychotherapy would be good to address how you do relationship, figuring out what you want in life, and your depression.

Mark