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It sounds very positive and you are doing the right things. Men move alot slower than we do..so I know it’s hard, but just do, what you are doing and take it slow. I need to take my own advice. Started a romance with a man I met on a health forum..I got pretty excited. All the therapy I have had, went right out the door..immediately..the high, unrealistic expectations set in..scared him off..said he “felt an instant bond with me” but things were moving to fast even for his standards, then he “thanked me” for showing him how to show emotions, laugh, how to live and be loved, then sent a mixed signal saying “girl, you move too fast”.. So..it’s back for more maintenance therapy in this issue and back to the drawing board. When will I ever learn. Glad things are doing better for you. x