Dear alyssa:

So he was never into meaningful-to you conversations? This leads me to think it hasn’t been his inclination to begin with, from the time you met him, from before you met him. Not something he is capable of.

Back to your original post, you wrote in capital letters and an exclamation mark: “I AM SO UPSET ALL THE TIME!”-

well, reads to me loud and clear that it is time for you to end this relationship, based on your loud and clear statement that you are upset all the time and based on what seems to be the fact that he doesn’t have it in him to have the kinds of conversations that you need from him.

Is it time?

anita