Hi Anita,

It definitely stemmed from this relationship, this was my first proper relationship 2 years ago, then he broke up with me out of the blue to get back with his ex. I have dated other people in between then and now, but wasn’t really bothered with the other guys i just dated to pass time.  We decided to try again 2 years later, I thought I addressed the issue of him just up and leaving the first time. Without going into to much detail, this time round I was always anxious when is he going to message, if he was online on whatsapp why isn’t he messaging me, why isn’t he arranging to spend time with him. He would have like a random model as his display picture on whatsapp and that instantly raise my anxiety levels, thinking that i wasn’t good enough.I became so clingy when he didn’t communicate with me. I would cause so many arguments out of no where, sometimes for no reason. I always thought there was an issue with him.