Hi Anita
Yes you hit the nail with that! That’s exactly how i feel like I’m not existent I just co exist. it’s very disheartening and it makes me feel less than. Like I’m not important, interesting or good enough to know on a deeper level which is far from the case. The things that I have mentioned to him about my life and self are merely surface considering what could be and should be discussed.And I can’t go on pretending like that doesn’t bother me when it really does. It really sucks. I think that you are right it says alot about what he thinks a woman is to a man to me. Pretty much says she is just some one to come along for the ride. That’s unacceptable and belittling to say the least. I know what i need to do now.. thank u for your help.