Dear Griffin:

Reads to  me that you think of love of the woman in your life as a philosophical issue: “love is ever expanding. There is no cap on love”. Thing is, love for a woman in your life is very much a matter of a biological emotional attachment. Not different in principle than the emotional attachment that motivates a fawn to follow his mother. The fawn does not entertain thoughts about what love is and what it should be. It simply feels attached to its mother and so, it follows her everywhere she goes, feeling safe when in her presence and anxious if separated.

What do you think?

anita