Hello Chris Joss,

I have not read all of the responses.  After reading your initial post, my concern is that she has not asked you to join her in going to her son’s sporting events and that she was not open about attending the games with her ex.  That she wants to attend these games with her ex and her ex-mother-in-law (EMIL) could mean any number of things.  She might want to make things comfortable for her son.  She might want to connect with her ex and EMIL for the sake of her son, and nothing more.  She might genuinely like both of them, but have no romantic feelings toward the ex.

Her secrecy surrounding this is what concerns me, but you can’t know the situation unless you talk about it with your girlfriend.  The more you hear from her, the more you will know how to move forward.

Pay attention to how she responds to you asking about the situation.  Is she hesitant in her answers?  Is she reassuring?  Does she hedge when asked about it?  Do her words match her actions?

Airene

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