Hi Lizzy,

Can you share a little bit about what happened to make you suddenly become unhappy with your boyfriend right after quitting smoking and drinking? Do you think that the drinking sort of made you feel “good” in the relationship? And quitting both suddenly at the same time, you may be going through withdrawal..perhaps feeling anxious, agitated, etc? Have you tried anything to get you through the quitting process? How long were you smoking? Drinking? Were you having any conflicts with your boyfriend when you were drinking and smoking?

You mentioned something about him starting something. Do you mean he is drinking and smoking you are unhappy with? Please post with any thoughts or comments..x