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Perhaps you’re right about that, fault may not be the right word. But still I feel like I only have myself to blame for this anxiety.
I discovered that my self-confidence is related to this anxiety. My low self-esteem is caused by not having a girlfriend when all my friends date wonderfull girls, even if they’re being a dick to them. That’s what my brother pointed out that saturday. So whenever a girl makes me feel good, the anxiety vanishes and I don’t think about it anymore. That’s pretty messed up because I’d need a girl in my life to fight my anxiety. This disturbs me :s
“I wish I helped others. But I don’t know if I am helping anyone.” You are 😉 solving someone’s problem is impossible, they have to solve it themselves. But you are helping, for sure. Your answers are neutral, mature and understanding. You can’t do more than you’re already doing. At least, that’s how I see it.
Greetings
Regi