Dear Cass:

Back to the topic in your original post, why he chose to have her as his girlfriend and not you, during the seven months relationship, reads to me that he was very bothered by your lifestyle, that is, going to parties on your own, staying up at friend’s place until 4 am and such. He was very worried that because of this lifestyle (and the clothes you wear, if I remember correctly), you will cheat on him. It makes sense then, that he is likely to feel safer with a woman who does not party and who has an earlier bed time than 4 am. Maybe she dresses differently and looks less attractive, less attention getting.

And so, with a safer woman, he was ready to present her in social media and otherwise as his girlfriend.

Does that make sense to you?

anita