i’ve never been the type to have guy friends, i rarely talk to men as friends, I’m an outgoing person but I’m really awkward when it comes to dating men, most of them I don’t really find attractive or easy to talk to, I’d rather have a conversation with my coworkers make or female, than a conversation with a guy just to be friends or get to know them, if that makes sense. My ex boyfriend was friends with my best friend and he started chatting on Facebook with me, and I thought he was just being like all the other guys that just text you and then go away, but I let him in because he was a friend’s friend and I didn’t want to be rude, I guess I also was not treating him like a real friend and then we started texting and he told me he was interested in me, I didn’t consciously started talking to him thinking about dating. I’m not into chasing superficial relationships, I like to spend my time with people that give me something, that I can be myself with, that I’m going to really have in my life for a long time, I hate superficial conversations with strangers. Is it bad to be like that? should I start changing? I consider myself a social butterfly but I don’t spend time on meeting new people and maintaining those relationships.