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We had the video call today.
No one lost his temper and we both explained our point of view.
Me, on the first hand to stay in France because it’s better for my kids and I am doing quiet well. Lots of plans for my future and my family is very supportive. But I respect her and wants her to be happy. Even if that means that she marries someone else.
Her, on the other hand wants to stay in Argentina. She is 37 and don’t want to finish alone. I think she is quit young to think like that. As I told her, you never know what can happen in the future. Maybe this relationship won’t last long. Maybe it will…. But she also knows that my kids want to move to France and that they will be better there .
So here we are. She doesn’t know what to do.
I am scared that her new love will try everything to convince her. I just hope she will put the well being of the kids first.
I told her that maybe they could come other to try. And if nothing works out we would come back to Argentina.
I will never stay that far for my kids. They need me too much. Both of us.
So I just have to wait and do my best to prove to her it’s worth moving here.
Thanks for reading my sad story .
Can t wait to be happy and to sleep well at night.