Dear John:

In your last post you wrote: “there was  just  something about her that just feels like it was  my missing piece all these years”-

I believe  that  the clarity that you need (very confused is in the title  of  your thread) is in seeing that missing piece. See that  missing piece within yourself and  this great,  once-in-a-lifetime love story will lose its intensity. You will gain clarity and calm.

That  is, if  you are  interested in calm (there is something  attractive about passion and  yearning and  desperation..?)

What  is that  missing piece? This is  my question.

anita