Dear Rose:

I am well, thank you.

You wrote earlier: “our relationship was not filled with roses and rainbows”. Your username is Rose, and it reads to me that you were indeed the rose in the relationship. It reads to me that you are and have been the reasonable one of the two, that you were loving and kind to him and that he would have benefited so very much if he indeed married you.

But people often do not do what is good for them to do.

Do you know more about his relationship with his father, with his mother?

(Getting more of a glimpse into what your ex boyfriend believes can be very useful for you as you consider if a relationship with him is indeed a “Dream OR Reality”).

anita