Anita,

I fear getting into relationships, while at the same time wanting a relationship. I try to force myself into relationships, while at the same time second-guessing my decision to like someone. I just cannot find someone who makes me happy enough tha I feel that I am actually in love. I feel like I have to be in a relationship with someone who I don’t have major feelings for. It is just hard for me to find and feel love. I don’t know if I haven’t found anyone yet, or if I just cannot find or feel love. I can feel love, but not always in a romantic sense. I think some of it has to do with my thin dating pool at my age, or maybe my underlying issues with love.