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Dear John:
This makes three people telling you the same thing then. Well, congratulations for hearing the three people at this point, for hearing me in my last post to you and hearing me in the post before, suggesting that you are inclined to drama yourself.
I think you can fix this, you already started to fix it by paying attention. Make it a project to pay attention to what people say, it is a skill that you will get better and better at the more you practice.
If you want, later on, whenever it is that you are calm, re-read your own thread. Maybe take notes and study what it is that you shared and what replies you got. Don’t accept everything other people, including myself, suggested to you as true; evaluate those things yourself and decide what is true or may be true (upon future examination) to you.
And do post again anytime.
anita