How long did you experience an ongoing good relationship with him before you took your break?
One year.

I decided to take a break. but we were in contact. Very much in contact. That was 4 months long. Then he moved on. I waited for 12 months after that.During the 9 th month (of the 12 months) he told me about his other relationship. He knew i was waiting for him yet he hid it from me and lied to me that he wasnt with anyone else. Then i decided to not talk but he wasnt ready to let go me at all. Every time i said i wanted to take care myself and not talk with him, he would have something to say and make me stay. For instance he was leaving the city for a job.