Dear FullOfRemorse86:

Notice how easy it is to say these words: “I care for you massively”. You can say it yourself right now, these five words. How long did it take, how much energy did it take out of you?

So easy, so quickly. This is why we have to consider people’s ongoing effort, over time so to know what really is going on. All the things he told you in the past, things that felt good… but then, those things were never materialized.

You wrote that you need to heal now. I sure hope you do. For that purpose, please reconsider the title of your thread “Lost the love of my life”- reconsider this man being the-love-of-your-life.

You may want to reconsider your username as well, full-0f-remorse. I don’t see any wrongdoing on your part in the context of the relationship with this man, therefore what is the remorse about?

anita