Dear Simona:

At the beginning of the relationship, you were “not that much into him”. He saw that, you wrote, and “claimed that he wanted to be loved entirely… to feel entirely wanted, to give and receive etc.”, and he told you to take time for yourself, “to think about what (you) really wanted.”

Reading the rest of your post, it seems like he did not  know what he wanted.

When you were that much into him, very much into him, as you are now, he wanted an open relationship. Then he figured it is not working out for him, an open relationship, that is.

I suppose he took his own advice to you and took time for himself, to think about what he really wants. Didn’t he?

anita