Dear IpkR09:

I am tired and would like to re-read and reply to your recent post tomorrow morning, in about sixteen hours from now.

For now, I am curious, and maybe you can answer me before I return to the computer:

You wrote earlier that you like his mother. Does it mean that you approve of her disrespect of her son’s privacy, not allowing him the space that a human being needs so to be mentally healthy?

You encouraged your ex boyfriend to hug his mother, to make her feel loved, you wrote-

isn’t it the job of the parent to make the child feel loved, not the other way around?

anita