Dear Laurie:

I asked because I believe that learning from our life experiences is most important in making better choices in the future, in becoming more effective in our choices and behaviors.

Of course, a person has to feel calm enough before learning can be done, before things can be looked into. And then there is the personal choice issue: to learn from or leave it all behind.

Thing is nothing hurtful is left behind and stays behind, unless we learn from it what we need to learn.

And so, when you are ready and willing, if you are, let me know. Otherwise, please continue to post. I will not ask more questions unless you let me know it is okay with you.

anita