Hi Anita,

He didn’t know how to communicate.  When we decided not to sell the house, it was because I tried to get him to sit down and talk about it & he never would.  He would just say, don’t worry about details and it will work out. (Temporary housing while new home is being built/where to store our furniture/what about wills & life insurance if something happened to one of us to protect the other & future plans~and when I found out his credit was terrible, he said it was not my business~  Whenever I tried to talk about most things he all of the sudden got tired & would just tell me to go to sleep & it would be better the next day.