Yes they’re still together. He changed now though. He stopped drinking like 4 years ago but the damage was done. I don’t live with them anymore so it doesn’t really phase me anymore because he is different now. I was never really angry at him, I do feel some type of resentment but in a weird twisted way I always felt bad for him. Like he knew exactly what to say when I was a kid so I’d feel bad for him and also my mom so I was kinda trapped in between them- feeling bad for both but also in a way resenting both at the same time. This probably all comes back to my relationships with men and what I allow in my relationships.