Hi,

I am going through a similar situation & yes, it is very painful when you don’t understand why someone walks out of your life.  He should tell you the whole story as to why, and he is not for some reason.  You said because he didn’t want to hurt you more.  My sister use to say don’t ask what you may not want to hear.  Which is easier said than done.  The pain of a relationship is never easy~I also understand how difficult it is not contacting your ex as I am working on that issue also.  I wish I had an easy fix & I can’t think of one.  I have friends that go out with other people to try and make their ex’s upset, but I don’t feel comfortable with that.  It’s not fair to you, or the person being used.  I feel when you Love someone truly it would (should) take you a while until you feel like sharing your life with a complete stranger.

I wish you the Best!