Hi Heartbroken Man,

This sounds counter-intuitive, but the best way to get her back at this point is to ignore her completely ~ unless she reaches out to you first. You don’t even have to tell her you’re doing this. She will wonder what happened to you. She might wonder if you’re OK. She might even speculate (with more anxiety than she’d be willing to admit to) if you have indeed moved on or even met someone else! Who knows. Warning! It could take years, but curiosity should get the better of her one day.

You mentioned a couple times that you put college before your relationship. As if you had done something wrong! NO! You SHOULD have put college first before some girl. What some women don’t understand is that a man, too, needs to build a nest. What future could you have with a future spouse if you HADN’T gone to college or advanced in a career? Never be sorry for that. Never.

Best,

Inky