More specific, I’m a very social person, he isn’t so he wants me to be a home body, I like to drink, he doesn’t so I stopped that (which is not a bad thing) however he smokes which I hate and I’m not asking him to change that which I cant stand, he likes to go through all my things : email, bank accounts, text messages, I have nothing to hide I just find it annoying since I don’t do that.  He also has mood swings where he takes his frustrations out on me. It’s just starting to get old.