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Hi. I was in relationship with this amazing guy that cared a lot about me and truly loved me. While we dated I was best friends with a guy, that I understand now, who was flirting me. After 4 months into the relationship my boyfriend decided to broke up with me. He said summer was coming and he wouldn’t have wifi and plus we argued lately. I just let him go cause we would always talk about how we would break up after some time cause this year is gonna be the last year we live in the place where we at. We are both moving next summer and we wanted to have fun..bein single. I really missed him so I tried to do everything to get him back. Right now he is in his country so I couldn’t do a lot. After a few weeks he started testing me and yesterday he told me still has feelings for me and would do anything to get him back. I was so happy bc thats what I always wanted but the problem is that while we had broken up (1 month ) this guy and me started texting A LOT. He really understands me and he cares about me. He told me he seriously likes me because I make him happy. Before knowing my ex would come back I was flirting with him and I started to develop feelings. Yesterday I explain him the situation with my ex and he didn’t take it good. He got kinda mad and told me that my ex hurt me and that while he was single he did a lot of things with other girls….which I already knew. I told him to give me a day to decide what to do. The thing is that my ex told me 2 weeks ago that he is moving NOW..like in one month. I still don’t think he will though even though he says he 100% will. Who should I choose? The guy that hurt me but regrets everything and still loves me, while he had really good past together but is most likely moving in a month, or the new guy that makes me happy and cares about me and is staying as long as I am for sure?
Please someone answer quietly because I don’t have any time left.