Dear Ladybug:

You wrote, “He said he doesn’t want to be this weak man.. (to) always work on being an alpha.. a man who does what’s right for the pack even if that means putting himself second… He said he appreciates my strength”-

It is you, according to his own definition who is being an alpha. It is you who does what is right for the pack (you and him, the team) putting yourself second.

I suppose he has to accept the baby-in-him, the one that talks with that baby voice to you when he does (if he still does). He has to accept the feminine in him, doesn’t he, before he can feel his masculinity?

anita