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Things do seem to be going in the right direction as he seems much more open and he isnt being emotionally distant. He is more affectionate and plays with me intimately. He even surprised me with a drive along the mountain last friday and we stood watching the view. Hes starting to take control of the situation and we are growing closer. Not saying that everything back to normal but we are embarking on a new journey (relationship). Its going to take some time before i fully trust him again because of what happened. We are both trying to spark up our relationship again and connect the way we useto to grow our new relationship stronger. He is showing effort and compliments me. I cant say im over what happened with him and the whole break and wanting to be single. I cant understand how a man who is deeply inlove and was considering marriage could just fall into a crises and want to abandon his woman whom he protected at all costs. I want to forgive him for the pain he has caused because i do still hold alot of love for him, but i also know that i deserve to be loved and to have security and not fear he will just lose himself again.