Dear Bella:

Yes, I think he is unhappy. A happy person is not an angry person. When a person feels happy, joyful, the person naturally wants to spread that joy around, being motivated to be kind and loving to people. The fact that he is not, and knowing some of his life history, leads me to believe that he is unhappy. I’ll put it this way: to think he is happy is unimaginable to me.

Better let go of the habit of looking to  him for help, any kind of help. Close all doors on him. Let it be in the past.

anita