Dear Claudia:

If loyalty in an intimate relationship is a top value for you. If you don’t accept 50% loyalty, or 75% or even 95%, if in action there must be 100% loyalty, then there is no compromise and that is okay. It is for you to determine. And if so, then the love and care for him, that should be a sacrifice on your part, in keeping this 100% value.

You are conflicted. You don’t have to decide today, what to do. Take a bit of time to figure this out. Do what you can do to be calm. We do our best thinking when calm. I will be back to the computer in about 16 hours. Hope to read from you when I am back and then reply to you again. I do hope you feel better soon.

anita