Dear Lily:

Having read your first thread and comments on other threads, I think that healing is very possible for you, and being as young as you are, you can be quite healthy before you are 30.

Because your shame and self hate has a lot to do with sex, I think that it is important that in the first part of your healing you will not have anything to do with the sexual activities you have been involved with as a teenager/ young adult: watching sexual anime (I believe it was), porn, sexual online communication and any sexual  interactions with another.

Examine your current relationships with parents and other family members, as well as with friends and see to it that you are not engaged in unhealthy relationships that keep you unwell. Change or eliminate unhealthy relationships.

And take it from there.

anita

* Dear Margarita: I read your post and would like to communicate with you. If you would like to copy some or your post and paste it into your own thread, please do so and I will reply to you there.