Hi Anita,

I’m not sure where to go from here.. I feel so hurt, lost and confused. I’m trying to work on myself take yoga classes and gym classes during the week to keep myself preoccupied and on the weekend I try to keep myself busy by having plans but I have to admit that this is always in the back of my mind and I sometimes start crying out at the most inconvenient times ( during work if I feel really anxious I’ll go to the bathroom and start crying). I have even tried therapy.. and the first meeting where I told my story helped a little because I was able to vent in a way… but the second meeting where she was telling me to do all the things I’m already doing and then proceeded to tell me that true love will find me and it took her to her forties to find it wasn’t so helpful.(I’m 27 and from Latin America so although I know its wrong I do feel pressured to marry before I’m 30 or I will have even failed at that)… My therapist then proceeded to tell me that there are creeps out there in the world and that my ex might have been manipulating me and I might not get my laptop back. This meeting was not helpful at all and instead of feeling better and hopeful I have to admit made me feel worse about myself. It was like she was basically telling me I was an awful judge of character and well f***  this sucks for you… I don’t know what to do and I’m trying to focus and work on myself but I can’t seem to shake this…. I don’t know where to go from here.