Dear Bella:

Even if it did happen, what difference would it make to him or to her.. or to you? It will be a legal transaction, that is all, wouldn’t it? Single one day, married the next. He is not a young man eager to start a family. This would be a later-in-life legal transaction, nothing like and-they-lived-happily-ever-after fairytale.

(Finances, reads to me, were a big part in the relationship with him, on his part, worrying about making child support payment, not being employed for a while, you not wanting to marry him because he didn’t have a job, his bad credit, cancelling the sale of the house, him moving out)

anita