i cant tell for sure but i can see how that may cause the lack of interest in sex. Things are slowly progressing but id like for us to be in a romantic intimate relationship, how could i change things so that it doesn’t develope into a mother – son dynamic. He also has started saying things like “you going to love me forever?” and “your my favorite girl in the whole world” and i love hearing these things but i cant help but feel nervous when he says stuff like that, he even said ” despite what happened over the last 6 months, i thnk we can be very successful, this is only the first year of us living together and we havent really struggled that badly” i love hearing his optimism and seeing him be so loving towards me but i always have this thought at the back of my mind that i must let what he says get to my head and that he may feel this way now but things can change very quickly.

As for our sex life, its not only just towards me he has this low sex drive, he doesnt even have motivation to masturbate. he says he struggles to get excited for sex or even feel horny to masturbate. although we did have sex one morning which was great for the both of us.