Dear sk932:

I understand that you did things wrong, fighting with him, then making out with another guy, but your boyfriend, or hopefully ex boyfriend, called you names, and hit you that one time. You cheating on him doesn’t make it okay for him to hit you or to call you names.

If you resumed a relationship with him, you will not be able to behave perfectly all the time. Let’s say you will not be cheating on him again, but there will be times when he will feel angry at you again. And I suppose he will be calling you names again. That is not a good way to live. Not to mention, if you had children with him, your children will hear him calling you names, maybe he will call them names too.

Better you learn all you can learn from this relationship, learn about how to better behave when you feel lonely again, so you don’t get hurt and so no one else gets hurt. And then, choose a man for your next relationship who doesn’t call you names, who is not verbally or physically abusive.

What do you think?

anita