Dear Hannah:

I hope you feel better soon.

The reason he gave you, that “he liked the buzz he got from matching with people … found it hard to break the habit”- reads very believable to me, from my own personal experience. It really does provide that buzz for a whole lot of people, to interact with so many people, all interested in dating. No other medium provides such an experience. It is exciting especially for people who before being a member in a dating site had little interactions and little dating.

Pleasurable habits being hard to break is of course true to all humans.

Because the two of you started dating not long ago, maybe it is fair that you give him another chance to stop his online activity. This buzz it does not indicate that he doesn’t like you or that you are not enough for him. It is an excitement that he experienced before dating you and continued to seek. I hope he does disable or delete his profile or profiles on any and all sites and focus on you.

* I will  be away from the computer and back in about 15 hours.

anita