Dear Hannah:

You are welcome. I think it is a wise choice, to give it another chance. Tell him simply, honestly how you feel (or keep telling him). Ask him how he feels. See to it that the two of you honestly share and listen to each other, empathetically and respectfully. Make a habit of it and keep it going.

You will need to see, in context of the issue here, that he is motivated to not hurt you more than he is motivated to feel that buzz. See that he values you, cares about how you feel.

What lots of people do in a situation like this is pressure and threaten the other person. Not a good plan of action. All you need is to see if, as is, he cares about how you feel more than he cares about the buzz. So share with him, tell him how important it is to you that he no longer engages in that online activity. And do post here again anytime. I would like to read from you again and will reply every time you post.

anita