Thanks Anita, I will certainly try and express how I feel calmly and see what kind of response I get.

I think the problem is that he doesn’t say how

he feels when we speak about this and I have to

keep asking. I don’t get impatient but try and stay calm so I get an honest response. I get the feeling that maybe he felt insecure or as if he was more into things than I was but doesn’t want to look weak. I am not always very good at expressing my feelings because it makes me feel vulnerable.