She is very condescending. So I might ask how big of a cake would you like me to order? And she would reply sarcastically “well there is going to be 30 people so enogh for 30 people” also, she never says thank you for the things I do that are technically not my responsibility at all.  She really doesn’t act like she cares about me at all. But yet calls and asks for things when she needs them. I just feel like she plays on my kindness and it irritates me so bad because I try to treat her like family and she never allows it. She isn’t welcoming or grateful or friendly. She is all about her but yet wants me to go with her places, and help with things but when I’m there she acts like she could careless if I’m there. It all confuses me.