Dear anita,

None of your statements describes what I think.

Generally speaking, I think that people are born Selfish. With an ability (not a garantie) to become altruistic if properly educated.

When it comes to arrogance, I think it is a magnifestation of the inner feeling. Which in its turn is conditionned by hormonal composition as well as the environment.

When it comes to my son, I think that the anger and/or anxiety is something which he inheritated – yes. And I believe there was nothing utterly wrong in the environment. There were mistakes (see my post above), but nothing dramatic.

As much as many other people. It mades it more difficult to educate him. As much as my older son was born with “happy gene”. Almost never cried, always smiled when was few months old.